Archive for October, 2009

Co-creation of success

October 31st, 2009

There is a lot to be said on the experience of applying your talents to your passions. Andy’s two pieces of advice – do what you love and do what you’re good at. It is so easy to say and so simple to do. Yet, often we don’t remind ourselves of these truths nor do anything about it.

If we think about it, conceptualisation can be a very enjoyable experience. “Keep looking up here and not down there”. Being a legend in your own mind and / or in the collective mind of collusive others is a sure fire way of thinking all is good when in actuality all is far from it.

People senior in organisations are easily seduced in to this ‘life above’. It is very comfortable. Holistically, senior leaders take their eye off the big picture and look to cost save rather than efficiency gain. They’ll naturally look to all else around themselves as to what can be manipulated rather than consider adjustment of their approach.

Middle leadership are waiting for steer from above whilst senior leadership make disjointed snap judgements based on personal gut feeling. Leaders emotionally remove themselves from their wider teams and instead go in small minded ‘fixing it themselves’ mode, aka – “I know what to do” rather than hold the breadth of the whole, enfold the right parts of the organisation together to become collectively more creative in solving the dilemmas of the day. This is usually because leaders think that if they solve all the problems they know, then everything will be sorted. It is based on an ego of ‘I can know everything’ and / or ‘I know how to solve it’. Both cases shrink thinking in to one person (or small team) and thus kill the creativity of the collective.

Times like now need people to come together to work on their company and / or industry wide problems. The solution is very much in the big picture. In a growing economy I’d suggest not paying attention to your business, instead pay attention to your industry!

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Realisation

October 10th, 2009

Nadine Stair, 85 years old at the close of her life…

If I had my life to live over, I’d try

To make more mistakes next time. I would

Relax, I would limber up, I would be crazier

Than I have been on this trip. I know very

Few things I’d take seriously anymore.

I would take more chances, I would take more

Trips, I would scale more mountains,

I would swim more rivers, and I would

Watch more sunsets.

I would have more actual troubles

And fewer imaginary ones. You see…

I was one of those people who lived

Prophylactically and sensibility and sanely,

Hour after hour and day after day.

Oh, I have had my moments

And if I had to do it all over

Again, I’d try not to have anything

Else, just moments, one after another,

Instead of living so many

Years ahead of my day. I’ve been

One of those people who never went

Anywhere without a thermometer,

A hot water bottle, a gargle,

A raincoat and a parachute.

If I had to do it all over again

I’d travel lighter, much lighter,

Than I have.

I would start barefoot earlier

In the spring, and I’d stay that way

Later in the fall. And I would

Ride more merry-go-rounds, and

Catch more gold rings, and greet

More people, and pick more flowers,

And dance more often. If I had it

To do all over again.

But you see,

I don’t.

More on on-ness (a favourite poem of mine)

October 5th, 2009

Whilst we are on the subject of on-ness, I was remembering one of my favourite poems – The Invitation by Oriah Mountain Dreamer.

On-ness for me is about the rhythm of life, the give and take, and how we respond to the ups and the downs. Take a look, it certainly touches me every time I read it…….Andy


The Invitation

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon…
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life’s betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me 
is true.
I want to know if you can 
disappoint another 
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life 
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes.”

It doesn’t interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone 
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

Oriah Mountain Dreamer

Human Energy

October 2nd, 2009

There are 6.788 billion people living on the surface of the Earth.

Trillions of people have been and gone and potentially trillions more will come. What is unique is that we (including you) happen to be here right now. This in itself is quite something- the (actual) experience and phenomenon of being alive… and this happens year after year, day after day and moment after moment.

You know this applies to you because you are breathing. Breathing is all the proof you need to know that you exist. Feel free to check it for yourself right now!

This ‘being alive’ experience is the baseline phenomenon. With this, we invite you to explore a few fundamentals that you already have.

Use your own judgement on how you feel and be honest with yourself…

Physical (0 – 10): Your body, your clothes, your home, your possessions, your money, your people, your surroundings

Mind Set (0-10): Your thoughts, your views, your tendencies, your desires, your consciousness

Emotional (0-10): Your expression, your feelings, your ‘heart’

Social (0-10): Your friends, your family and all those who span from the most intimate to you to the most distant

Purposeful (0-10): Your awareness of what you are naturally passionate about and what you are naturally talented in.

One or more of the 5 elements above could be attracting your attention. Note which one(s) and quest in to your own answers.